Upcoming birthday and christening of my Son

it's very a hard thinking days?!Why?because 1st birthday of my son is coming.when?this august 09'08.i plan also to celebrate his christening together with his birthday meaning its a double celebration..guys do you think i can make it with my own?all of these?i guess not!but i have to stand with my own responsibility..As a single mother,i have to take all the responsibility for my son's good not for my own good but for my angel..

Please give some opinion and suggestion for this celebration..