Monday, July 21, 2008

The Eye of the Beholder

We all know that men are visual creatures, but we shouldn't stop there.
We must examine the whole man. Men are three-dimensional beings. They are living souls
who have a spirit that resides in a body. This means that we must appeal to all
three levels of their makeup--physical, emotional, and spiritual.
Beyond this, they have five senses that involve how they respond--to sight, sound, smell, taste and touch.
When getting a man's attention, you can appeal to one level and affect one senses.
However, to keep that man's interest. you must involve all levels of his
being as well as all of his sense.

Where do we begin?
In the obvious place. In order to capture his heart, you've got to catch his eye first.
So let's begin with the eye gate.
What first catches is eye? The physical realm...hhhmmmm..,
it's not as bad as you think. You will be surprised to fine that while we are examining
ourselves under a high-powered microscope for all of our various real and imagine flaws,
men view women quite differently. Every man has his favorite feature.
Lips, legs, eyes, oh my!
its is a varied list depending on who is looking your way. So we will take a look
at them all. Something about you might catch his eye that is seemingly insignificant, even quirky,
in fact. Aaaah, but to hold his gaze, the picture of you must be completed
but not exactly the way you think.

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