Saturday, August 30, 2008

What is Pride?

Pride means self respect, self esteem, the state of being proud.Pride is more than a word. It is a definitive guide to being a person.Thats why sometimes people get lost when the pride was lost. But what if the pride was lost?
At our early age, we say that our pride was hurt. Pride in a sense that we don't have a face to faced for the person we like. Like, everytime we pass them, we will become invisible to their site. We tend to act weird if true, and we tend to be guilty about the thing that makes us shy for ourselves. But of course, its a stage of growing old.When we get older, we experience the real thing of pride. It so hard to eat our pride, but most hard is we ourselves lost our pride. When we get old, especially for boys their afraid to get basted for the girls they like or want. Its not easy to cope up if they get basted.Sometimes it hurt but what boys want they get. But its a vise versa situation in favor for the girls.For our new generation today, both men and women are empowered to do what they want, both have the right to fall in love and pursue the love of their life. But of course it is a games of chances

It is so hard to swallow your pride because it is just like you lost it in yourself. Hard to swallow the pride if your aura looks like desperate. Hard to swallow the pride because in your eyes, in your mind it is not needed.
Having to lose one’s pride would mean crossing over the very fine line of sane to insane..

2 comments:

janet said...

Heheheh nice topic.. pro ang pride kadalasan indi ito nag dudulot ng maganda, specially in relationship. Base lng sa relationship nmin ni john kung both smin mataas ang pride matagal na kming hiwalay. Kaya Jeck kung mangita ka ug new bf pilia ang mga tigulang kay taas kau ug pasensya heheheh jowk.. lab au na nk c john oi..

Allen's Darling said...

Hi Jessica

PRIDE!!! yes, talking about "PRIDE" if your married to a man like my man.You know what i mean...differences, age , culture , and environment. Honestly, you will lost your pride.In order to keep your sanity going.Laughing,laughing,laughing...yes, loosen a bit.Don't hold on to your pride.Because sometimes this is the main problem of your "Family" But, keep like 35% for yourself of course.Because i strongly believe that the best marriage depends on how strong woman are we.Men is men. No matter what! but they had a big EGO, like a balloon.I love my husband so sometimes.I don't mind if i loose my pride.I just wanted "Peace" in our home.That's all jess. Anyway, we are entitled to ouw own opinion.

God bless
Ate weng